[Magdalen] Name for RC communion request?

[Lynn Ronkainen]

My mothers Funeral Mass is being planned for 2 weeks hence. Is there a word, dispensation perhaps, when baptized Episcopalians ask to receive communion under extra ordinary circumstances like this? I know it is possible and I want to request this with the appearance of  foreknowledge of the possibility. LEMS from this church - deacons actually- have already refused me when I was with my mother when they showed up to give her communion. This funeral planning is already getting uber-complicated.  
Thanks for any input. 
Lynn 

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