[Magdalen] A healthy approach to dramatically changing family dynamics!

[Jay Weigel]

My late ex didn't have an S/O. The lady who I thought was turned out to be
nothing more than a friend who sensibly decided that she was no more about
to put up with his drinking and self-destructive ways than I had. She's
been a pretty good friend since his death.

On Sat, May 7, 2016 at 10:15 AM, Grace Cangialosi <gracecan at gmail.com>
wrote:

> This is terrific! I wish I'd thought to do something like this with my
> ex's S/O of some 20 years--she died a year ago. This was always my
> intention and approach, but I never stated it explicitly, and she felt
> threatened and was pretty ugly to me and to my daughter for awhile.
>
> > On May 7, 2016, at 9:41 AM, James Oppenheimer-Crawford <
> oppenheimerjw at gmail.com> wrote:
> >
> > I just read this, and I have to share it.  This woman is just determined
> to
> > "make lemonade."
> >
> >
> http://www.upworthy.com/an-open-letter-to-my-ex-husbands-future-wife?c=upw1
> >
> > James W. Oppenheimer-Crawford
> > *“A life is like a garden. Perfect moments can be had, but not preserved,
> > except in memory. LLAP**”  -- *Leonard Nimoy
>