[Magdalen] Advice - Malcolm

[Rick Mashburn]

❤

Thanks,

Rick



On Fri, Feb 4, 2022 at 9:44 AM ME Michaud <michaudme at gmail.com> wrote:

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> On Fri, Jan 28, 2022 at 9:57 PM Rick Mashburn <ricklmashburn at gmail.com>
> wrote:
>
> > Thank you! I'm so glad we were able to plan and have it done at home.
> >
> > Thanks, Rick
> > 210-618-5096
> >
> >
> > On Fri, Jan 28, 2022, 7:26 PM Lynn Ronkainen <houstonklr at gmail.com>
> wrote:
> >
> > > Thoughts of you tonight. You were both such loving "doggie daddies ".
> > >
> > > Lynn
> > >
> > > On Jan 28, 2022, at 6:32 PM, Juli Tarsney <juli at tarsney.net> wrote:
> > >
> > > Much love to you and Alex. I know how sad you must be.
> > >
> > > You took such good loving care of your baby.
> > >
> > > On Fri, Jan 28, 2022 at 6:24 PM Rick Mashburn <ricklmashburn at gmail.com
> >
> > > wrote:
> > > >
> > > > For those of you not on Facebook, I posted this earlier today:
> > > >
> > > > This morning, we had to send our beloved Malcolm across the Rainbow
> > > Bridge.
> > > > It was quiet and peaceful. The vet came to our home. He was
> surrounded
> > by
> > > > love and his humans. We are so grateful that we had 13 wonderful
> years
> > > with
> > > > him. Our hearts are broken but it was the best thing for him. He had
> > > > medical issues that could not be solved. We loved him his entire
> life.
> > We
> > > > will miss for the rest of ours. Rest in peace, dear friend.
> > > >
> > > > Much love, Rick
> > > >
> > > >
> > > > On Tue, Jan 25, 2022 at 1:48 PM Rick Mashburn <
> ricklmashburn at gmail.com
> > >
> > > > wrote:
> > > >
> > > >> Thank you, Chris!
> > > >>
> > > >> Thanks,
> > > >>
> > > >> Rick
> > > >>
> > > >> On Tue, Jan 25, 2022 at 1:34 PM Christopher Hart <
> cervus51 at gmail.com>
> > > >> wrote:
> > > >>
> > > >>> So sorry, Rick. I didn't respond earlier because I really had no
> > > advice to
> > > >>> offer, but I feel your pain. May Malcom be comforted by your love.
> > > >>>
> > > >>> On Tue, Jan 25, 2022 at 12:08 PM Rick Mashburn <
> > > ricklmashburn at gmail.com>
> > > >>> wrote:
> > > >>>
> > > >>>> Thanks to everyone who has responded. He's not getting any better.
> > I'm
> > > >>>> waiting on a call back from his regular vet to confirm that there
> > > isn't
> > > >>>> anything else that can be done.
> > > >>>>
> > > >>>> The really scary part is that some of the stones in his bladder
> are
> > > >>> pretty
> > > >>>> large. (I've seen the x-rays.) If he gets completely blocked, his
> > > >>> bladder
> > > >>>> will fill pretty quickly. If it ruptures, that will be painful for
> > him
> > > >>> and
> > > >>>> traumatic for all of us. That's not what we want..
> > > >>>>
> > > >>>> A friend recommended a vet who makes house calls. We will likely
> > > >>> schedule
> > > >>>> the procedure for Friday morning. We're heartbroken but it's the
> > best
> > > >>> thing
> > > >>>> for him. It would be unfair to wait too long. He will be here
> where
> > he
> > > >>>> feels safe and loved and with his family.
> > > >>>>
> > > >>>> Prayers would be very much appreciated.
> > > >>>>
> > > >>>> Much love,
> > > >>>>
> > > >>>> Rick, Alex and Malcolm
> > > >>>>
> > > >>>> On Tue, Jan 25, 2022 at 10:35 AM Ann Markle <
> > ann.markle at aya.yale.edu>
> > > >>>> wrote:
> > > >>>>
> > > >>>>> Rick, I'm just so sorry.  I can't imagine saying goodbye to my
> > cuddle
> > > >>>> bug,
> > > >>>>> and it has never been easy in the past.  I've been lucky to have
> > vets
> > > >>>>> advise me, and illnesses so serious that it really had to be
> done.
> > > >>>>> Clementine was done at the vet's office.  I lay beside her and
> > talked
> > > >>> to
> > > >>>>> her until she went to sleep; it was a 2 shot deal (the last to
> stop
> > > >>> her
> > > >>>>> heart), and I couldn't stay for the last shot.  Dori came into my
> > > >>> life a
> > > >>>>> short time after that, and cold as it sounds, it really did ease
> > the
> > > >>> pain
> > > >>>>> of losing Clem.  I hope this isn't too devastating for you, but
> > also
> > > >>> that
> > > >>>>> you grieve well, with sweet memories.
> > > >>>>>
> > > >>>>> Ann
> > > >>>>>
> > > >>>>> The Rev. Ann Markle
> > > >>>>> Buffalo, NY
> > > >>>>> ann.markle at aya.yale.edu
> > > >>>>>
> > > >>>>>
> > > >>>>> On Mon, Jan 24, 2022 at 12:49 AM Rick Mashburn <
> > > >>> ricklmashburn at gmail.com>
> > > >>>>> wrote:
> > > >>>>>
> > > >>>>>> Dear friends,
> > > >>>>>>
> > > >>>>>> It's been a hard day at our house. As some of you know, Malcolm
> > was
> > > >>>>>> diagnosed with calcium oxalate bladder stones for some years
> now.
> > > >>> He's
> > > >>>>> been
> > > >>>>>> on meds to balance the Ph in his urine (believed to pre-dispose
> > > >>> dogs to
> > > >>>>>> these types of stones) with success for the last 3 or 4 years.
> > > >>>>>>
> > > >>>>>> In the last six months, the number of stones has increased and
> > he's
> > > >>>>> needed
> > > >>>>>> hydropropulsion therapy multiple times. Last week, that stopped
> > > >>>> working.
> > > >>>>> He
> > > >>>>>> was at the vet on Thursday and Friday but they were not able to
> > > >>> clear
> > > >>>> his
> > > >>>>>> urethra. In spite of taht, on Friday night, he was able to
> urinate
> > > >>>> almost
> > > >>>>>> normally and to a lesser extent on Saturday. Today, it has
> gotten
> > > >>> much
> > > >>>>>> worse. He is able to urinate but not very much and it's obvious
> he
> > > >>> is
> > > >>>> not
> > > >>>>>> able to empty his bladder.
> > > >>>>>>
> > > >>>>>> We are walking him more frequently so he can empty his bladder
> as
> > > >>> much
> > > >>>> as
> > > >>>>>> possible but we know this is not a sustainable situation. The
> > worst
> > > >>>> case
> > > >>>>>> scenario would be a ruptured bladder which would be painful and
> > > >>>> traumatic
> > > >>>>>> for all of us. I can't stand the thought of that happening to
> him.
> > > >>>>>>
> > > >>>>>> We've been in touch with a vet who makes house calls. They
> provide
> > > >>>>>> euthenasia in a gentle, supportive way that would let us say
> > > >>> goodbye to
> > > >>>>> him
> > > >>>>>> without trauma. But, the thought of saying goodbye too soon is
> > also
> > > >>>> hard
> > > >>>>> to
> > > >>>>>> imagine.
> > > >>>>>>
> > > >>>>>> I know many, many of you have had to make this agonizing
> decision.
> > > >>> What
> > > >>>>>> made the difference for you? What is the right criteria? We
> don't
> > > >>> want
> > > >>>> to
> > > >>>>>> make a decision too quickly but I'm afraid that is mostly just
> > > >>>>> selfishness.
> > > >>>>>> I don't want to say goodbye at all but the window for that is
> > > >>> closing
> > > >>>> --
> > > >>>>>> and could close even more quickly than we imagine.
> > > >>>>>>
> > > >>>>>> We know our hearts will be broken either way. We want to do the
> > > >>> right
> > > >>>>> thing
> > > >>>>>> for Malcolm.
> > > >>>>>>
> > > >>>>>> Much love,
> > > >>>>>>
> > > >>>>>> Rick
> > > >>>>>>
> > > >>>>>
> > > >>>>
> > > >>>
> > > >>>
> > > >>> --
> > > >>>
> > > >>> Christopher Hart
> > > >>>
> > > >>> List Mail Address: cervus51 at gmail.com
> > > >>> Personal Mail: cervus at veritasliberat.net
> > > >>> Twitter: @cervus51
> > > >>>
> > > >>
> > >
> >
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