[Magdalen] Advice - Malcolm

[Rick Mashburn]

For those of you not on Facebook, I posted this earlier today:

This morning, we had to send our beloved Malcolm across the Rainbow Bridge.
It was quiet and peaceful. The vet came to our home. He was surrounded by
love and his humans. We are so grateful that we had 13 wonderful years with
him. Our hearts are broken but it was the best thing for him. He had
medical issues that could not be solved. We loved him his entire life. We
will miss for the rest of ours. Rest in peace, dear friend.

Much love, Rick


On Tue, Jan 25, 2022 at 1:48 PM Rick Mashburn <ricklmashburn at gmail.com>
wrote:

> Thank you, Chris!
>
> Thanks,
>
> Rick
>
> On Tue, Jan 25, 2022 at 1:34 PM Christopher Hart <cervus51 at gmail.com>
> wrote:
>
>> So sorry, Rick. I didn't respond earlier because I really had no advice to
>> offer, but I feel your pain. May Malcom be comforted by your love.
>>
>> On Tue, Jan 25, 2022 at 12:08 PM Rick Mashburn <ricklmashburn at gmail.com>
>> wrote:
>>
>> > Thanks to everyone who has responded. He's not getting any better. I'm
>> > waiting on a call back from his regular vet to confirm that there isn't
>> > anything else that can be done.
>> >
>> > The really scary part is that some of the stones in his bladder are
>> pretty
>> > large. (I've seen the x-rays.) If he gets completely blocked, his
>> bladder
>> > will fill pretty quickly. If it ruptures, that will be painful for him
>> and
>> > traumatic for all of us. That's not what we want..
>> >
>> > A friend recommended a vet who makes house calls. We will likely
>> schedule
>> > the procedure for Friday morning. We're heartbroken but it's the best
>> thing
>> > for him. It would be unfair to wait too long. He will be here where he
>> > feels safe and loved and with his family.
>> >
>> > Prayers would be very much appreciated.
>> >
>> > Much love,
>> >
>> > Rick, Alex and Malcolm
>> >
>> > On Tue, Jan 25, 2022 at 10:35 AM Ann Markle <ann.markle at aya.yale.edu>
>> > wrote:
>> >
>> > > Rick, I'm just so sorry.  I can't imagine saying goodbye to my cuddle
>> > bug,
>> > > and it has never been easy in the past.  I've been lucky to have vets
>> > > advise me, and illnesses so serious that it really had to be done.
>> > > Clementine was done at the vet's office.  I lay beside her and talked
>> to
>> > > her until she went to sleep; it was a 2 shot deal (the last to stop
>> her
>> > > heart), and I couldn't stay for the last shot.  Dori came into my
>> life a
>> > > short time after that, and cold as it sounds, it really did ease the
>> pain
>> > > of losing Clem.  I hope this isn't too devastating for you, but also
>> that
>> > > you grieve well, with sweet memories.
>> > >
>> > > Ann
>> > >
>> > > The Rev. Ann Markle
>> > > Buffalo, NY
>> > > ann.markle at aya.yale.edu
>> > >
>> > >
>> > > On Mon, Jan 24, 2022 at 12:49 AM Rick Mashburn <
>> ricklmashburn at gmail.com>
>> > > wrote:
>> > >
>> > > > Dear friends,
>> > > >
>> > > > It's been a hard day at our house. As some of you know, Malcolm was
>> > > > diagnosed with calcium oxalate bladder stones for some years now.
>> He's
>> > > been
>> > > > on meds to balance the Ph in his urine (believed to pre-dispose
>> dogs to
>> > > > these types of stones) with success for the last 3 or 4 years.
>> > > >
>> > > > In the last six months, the number of stones has increased and he's
>> > > needed
>> > > > hydropropulsion therapy multiple times. Last week, that stopped
>> > working.
>> > > He
>> > > > was at the vet on Thursday and Friday but they were not able to
>> clear
>> > his
>> > > > urethra. In spite of taht, on Friday night, he was able to urinate
>> > almost
>> > > > normally and to a lesser extent on Saturday. Today, it has gotten
>> much
>> > > > worse. He is able to urinate but not very much and it's obvious he
>> is
>> > not
>> > > > able to empty his bladder.
>> > > >
>> > > > We are walking him more frequently so he can empty his bladder as
>> much
>> > as
>> > > > possible but we know this is not a sustainable situation. The worst
>> > case
>> > > > scenario would be a ruptured bladder which would be painful and
>> > traumatic
>> > > > for all of us. I can't stand the thought of that happening to him.
>> > > >
>> > > > We've been in touch with a vet who makes house calls. They provide
>> > > > euthenasia in a gentle, supportive way that would let us say
>> goodbye to
>> > > him
>> > > > without trauma. But, the thought of saying goodbye too soon is also
>> > hard
>> > > to
>> > > > imagine.
>> > > >
>> > > > I know many, many of you have had to make this agonizing decision.
>> What
>> > > > made the difference for you? What is the right criteria? We don't
>> want
>> > to
>> > > > make a decision too quickly but I'm afraid that is mostly just
>> > > selfishness.
>> > > > I don't want to say goodbye at all but the window for that is
>> closing
>> > --
>> > > > and could close even more quickly than we imagine.
>> > > >
>> > > > We know our hearts will be broken either way. We want to do the
>> right
>> > > thing
>> > > > for Malcolm.
>> > > >
>> > > > Much love,
>> > > >
>> > > > Rick
>> > > >
>> > >
>> >
>>
>>
>> --
>>
>> Christopher Hart
>>
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