[Magdalen] Advice - Malcolm

[Lynn Ronkainen]

Thoughts of you tonight. You were both such loving "doggie daddies ". 

Lynn

On Jan 28, 2022, at 6:32 PM, Juli Tarsney <juli at tarsney.net> wrote:

Much love to you and Alex. I know how sad you must be.

You took such good loving care of your baby.

On Fri, Jan 28, 2022 at 6:24 PM Rick Mashburn <ricklmashburn at gmail.com> wrote:
> 
> For those of you not on Facebook, I posted this earlier today:
> 
> This morning, we had to send our beloved Malcolm across the Rainbow Bridge.
> It was quiet and peaceful. The vet came to our home. He was surrounded by
> love and his humans. We are so grateful that we had 13 wonderful years with
> him. Our hearts are broken but it was the best thing for him. He had
> medical issues that could not be solved. We loved him his entire life. We
> will miss for the rest of ours. Rest in peace, dear friend.
> 
> Much love, Rick
> 
> 
> On Tue, Jan 25, 2022 at 1:48 PM Rick Mashburn <ricklmashburn at gmail.com>
> wrote:
> 
>> Thank you, Chris!
>> 
>> Thanks,
>> 
>> Rick
>> 
>> On Tue, Jan 25, 2022 at 1:34 PM Christopher Hart <cervus51 at gmail.com>
>> wrote:
>> 
>>> So sorry, Rick. I didn't respond earlier because I really had no advice to
>>> offer, but I feel your pain. May Malcom be comforted by your love.
>>> 
>>> On Tue, Jan 25, 2022 at 12:08 PM Rick Mashburn <ricklmashburn at gmail.com>
>>> wrote:
>>> 
>>>> Thanks to everyone who has responded. He's not getting any better. I'm
>>>> waiting on a call back from his regular vet to confirm that there isn't
>>>> anything else that can be done.
>>>> 
>>>> The really scary part is that some of the stones in his bladder are
>>> pretty
>>>> large. (I've seen the x-rays.) If he gets completely blocked, his
>>> bladder
>>>> will fill pretty quickly. If it ruptures, that will be painful for him
>>> and
>>>> traumatic for all of us. That's not what we want..
>>>> 
>>>> A friend recommended a vet who makes house calls. We will likely
>>> schedule
>>>> the procedure for Friday morning. We're heartbroken but it's the best
>>> thing
>>>> for him. It would be unfair to wait too long. He will be here where he
>>>> feels safe and loved and with his family.
>>>> 
>>>> Prayers would be very much appreciated.
>>>> 
>>>> Much love,
>>>> 
>>>> Rick, Alex and Malcolm
>>>> 
>>>> On Tue, Jan 25, 2022 at 10:35 AM Ann Markle <ann.markle at aya.yale.edu>
>>>> wrote:
>>>> 
>>>>> Rick, I'm just so sorry.  I can't imagine saying goodbye to my cuddle
>>>> bug,
>>>>> and it has never been easy in the past.  I've been lucky to have vets
>>>>> advise me, and illnesses so serious that it really had to be done.
>>>>> Clementine was done at the vet's office.  I lay beside her and talked
>>> to
>>>>> her until she went to sleep; it was a 2 shot deal (the last to stop
>>> her
>>>>> heart), and I couldn't stay for the last shot.  Dori came into my
>>> life a
>>>>> short time after that, and cold as it sounds, it really did ease the
>>> pain
>>>>> of losing Clem.  I hope this isn't too devastating for you, but also
>>> that
>>>>> you grieve well, with sweet memories.
>>>>> 
>>>>> Ann
>>>>> 
>>>>> The Rev. Ann Markle
>>>>> Buffalo, NY
>>>>> ann.markle at aya.yale.edu
>>>>> 
>>>>> 
>>>>> On Mon, Jan 24, 2022 at 12:49 AM Rick Mashburn <
>>> ricklmashburn at gmail.com>
>>>>> wrote:
>>>>> 
>>>>>> Dear friends,
>>>>>> 
>>>>>> It's been a hard day at our house. As some of you know, Malcolm was
>>>>>> diagnosed with calcium oxalate bladder stones for some years now.
>>> He's
>>>>> been
>>>>>> on meds to balance the Ph in his urine (believed to pre-dispose
>>> dogs to
>>>>>> these types of stones) with success for the last 3 or 4 years.
>>>>>> 
>>>>>> In the last six months, the number of stones has increased and he's
>>>>> needed
>>>>>> hydropropulsion therapy multiple times. Last week, that stopped
>>>> working.
>>>>> He
>>>>>> was at the vet on Thursday and Friday but they were not able to
>>> clear
>>>> his
>>>>>> urethra. In spite of taht, on Friday night, he was able to urinate
>>>> almost
>>>>>> normally and to a lesser extent on Saturday. Today, it has gotten
>>> much
>>>>>> worse. He is able to urinate but not very much and it's obvious he
>>> is
>>>> not
>>>>>> able to empty his bladder.
>>>>>> 
>>>>>> We are walking him more frequently so he can empty his bladder as
>>> much
>>>> as
>>>>>> possible but we know this is not a sustainable situation. The worst
>>>> case
>>>>>> scenario would be a ruptured bladder which would be painful and
>>>> traumatic
>>>>>> for all of us. I can't stand the thought of that happening to him.
>>>>>> 
>>>>>> We've been in touch with a vet who makes house calls. They provide
>>>>>> euthenasia in a gentle, supportive way that would let us say
>>> goodbye to
>>>>> him
>>>>>> without trauma. But, the thought of saying goodbye too soon is also
>>>> hard
>>>>> to
>>>>>> imagine.
>>>>>> 
>>>>>> I know many, many of you have had to make this agonizing decision.
>>> What
>>>>>> made the difference for you? What is the right criteria? We don't
>>> want
>>>> to
>>>>>> make a decision too quickly but I'm afraid that is mostly just
>>>>> selfishness.
>>>>>> I don't want to say goodbye at all but the window for that is
>>> closing
>>>> --
>>>>>> and could close even more quickly than we imagine.
>>>>>> 
>>>>>> We know our hearts will be broken either way. We want to do the
>>> right
>>>>> thing
>>>>>> for Malcolm.
>>>>>> 
>>>>>> Much love,
>>>>>> 
>>>>>> Rick
>>>>>> 
>>>>> 
>>>> 
>>> 
>>> 
>>> --
>>> 
>>> Christopher Hart
>>> 
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>>> 
>>