[Magdalen] decline of this list

[Rick Mashburn]

Hi Marion and Juli,

Thank you both! I haven't told very many people - especially on social
media. Our close friends and families know but not many more.

It is very difficult. When you have dinner together almost every night for
10 years, it's hard to learn how to eat alone again. But, Milo and I are
marching forward!

Peace to all of you,
Rick


Thanks,

Rick
210-618-5096

On Thu, Sep 25, 2025, 4:46 PM Juli Tarsney <juli at tarsney.net> wrote:

> Rick, I'm so sorry! I didn't know this :(
>
> Selling a house and moving sounds overwhelming even under good
> circumstances. I'm glad you have Milo. And your cooking looks good!
>
> On Thu, Sep 25, 2025 at 2:50 PM Rick Mashburn <ricklmashburn at gmail.com>
> wrote:
>
> > I'm still here as well but much has changed. Alex told me we were
> getting a
> > divorce in May. We sold our house together and the divorce will be final
> in
> > November. I'm busy at work for which I'm very grateful. Milo seems
> settled.
> > He didn't like the new place at first but he has learned to enjoy the
> > backyard. I've slowly started cooking again but I'm sticking to very
> simple
> > recipes for now. If the weather ever turns cool, I know I'll be craving a
> > big pot of gumbo. I think I'll go to one of the great Cajun restaurants
> we
> > have here. There is one owned by a mother/daughter duo that relocated
> here
> > after Katrina. I think I'll just go there instead of making it myself!
> >
> > After 10 years of marriage, I'm struggling with being single again. But,
> > I've lived alone most of my adult life so I know I will figure it out
> > again!
> >
> > Peace, Rick and Milo
> > San Antonio
> >
> >
> > Thanks,
> >
> > Rick
> > 210-618-5096
> >
> >
> > On Wed, Sep 24, 2025 at 11:28 AM Marilyn Cepeda <mcepeda514 at gmail.com>
> > wrote:
> >
> > > I am indeed still here. At age 72, I am finding it a curious time. I
> have
> > > become the oldest remaining in my immediate family with only one first
> > > cousin remaining. Many of my friends including my two best friends have
> > > passed on as have my parents in law.
> > >
> > > I cannot say it is lonely as we have three of our five kids local. One
> > > lives around the corner from us with the youngest grands. They come
> here
> > > after school. One pops in for coffee weekly. One texts off and on
> during
> > > the day.
> > >
> > > I have slacked off much of my church activity remembering words of my
> > > spiritual director that there is nothing wrong with sitting in a pew
> > that I
> > > did not always have to be busy.
> > >
> > > I am pretty healthy as far as I know. Given the state of many around
> me I
> > > am grateful. I do sometimes wonder what will eventually befall me and
> if
> > I
> > > will handle with any grace or be an ill tempered old lady or a total
> > baby.
> > > For the sake of the kids, I hope it is not the latter options!
> > >
> > > Always nice to hear from you all as a very important part of my
> > transition
> > > from Methodist to Episcopalian.
> > > 😀
> > >
> > > Marilyn (Owens, Palmero) Cepeda
> > >
> > >
> > > On Wed, Sep 24, 2025 at 11:13 AM Simon Kershaw <simon at kershaw.org.uk>
> > > wrote:
> > >
> > > > I guess most of us are still here. Life in retirement is busy though.
> > > >
> > > > Current agenda...
> > > >
> > > > Just finishing compilation of my annual calendar for the Church of
> > > > England, used by a few thousand clergy and parishes. At least 25
> years
> > > > since I first did this.
> > > >
> > > > Trying to read through documents of the long-listed candidates to be
> > the
> > > > next Bishop of Ely. For each candidate there are some five documents
> to
> > > > plough through and to give a preliminary assessment and justification
> > of
> > > > whether they should be shortlisted. The 14 members of the selection
> > > > panel (the Crown Nominations Commission) meet next week to decide on
> > the
> > > > shortlist. Two days of interviews and decision-making will follow in
> > > > November.
> > > >
> > > > Bishop's Council meeting tomorrow night -- papers still to be read in
> > > > preparation.
> > > >
> > > > The Saturday after next (4 October) I will be admitted and licensed
> as
> > a
> > > > Lay Reader (or Licensed Lay Minister). The good news there is that
> the
> > > > two years of training are completed!
> > > >
> > > > The Saturday after that is diocesan synod -- of which I am the lay
> > > > chair. Nothing much on the agenda (ha ha), just budget and such like.
> > > > And a debate on where the Church of England goes on same-sex
> > > > relationships. And my co-chair, the clergy chair, who would normally
> > > > share the role with me, is undergoing treatment for breast cancer,
> so I
> > > > might be on my own.
> > > >
> > > > I also have a two-day meeting of the Church of England Liturgical
> > > > Commission at the end of October.
> > > >
> > > > And then there's the important stuff like helping to look after our
> two
> > > > young granddaughters. And helping deal with my two elderly
> > > > parents-in-law who live a couple of hundred miles away: my
> > mother-in-law
> > > > is suffering from dementia, and my father-in-law is finding it harder
> > > > and harder to cope.
> > > >
> > > > And that's just the highlights from my diary!
> > > >
> > > > simon
> > > >
> > > > On 23/09/2025 21.48, Kate Conant wrote:
> > > > > Has the list died? I haven't received anything since March. Of
> > course,
> > > I
> > > > > hadn't written anything either.
> > > >
> > > >
> > > > --
> > > > Simon Kershaw
> > > > simon at kershaw.org.uk
> > > > Saint Ives, Cambridgeshire
> > > >
> > > >
> > >
> >
>