Bryan Hunt posted an article by Pierre Whalon in the Huffington Post that is a meditation on his wife's recent death. I think this is the link. In case it doesn't work, the title is "Grief and the Quotidian." I thought it was lovely. http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/us_58ed3351e4b081da6ad0087d?ncid=engmodushpmg00000004