[Magdalen] update.

[Grace Cangialosi]

"misandrist"...I was just wondering this morning if there was a male equivalent of "misogynist." Interesting that the latter is used so much more frequently--wonder what that's about?!

> On Jul 5, 2016, at 1:21 PM, Cantor03--- via Magdalen <magdalen at herberthouse.org> wrote:
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> In a message dated 7/5/2016 12:18:06 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time,  
> jay.weigel at gmail.com writes:
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> I wish  my late ex and I had been able to have that kind of relationship.
> However,  his disease made him vote in favor of hate, although he did have
> moments.  I'm rather glad he went before Adam did. He would not have been
> able to  deal with that in any  fashion.>>>>>>>>>>>
> 
> Divorce in the USA is often hell.
> 
> Initially in the proceedings, my ex-wife expressed the frequent  desire
> to keep it all friendly and loving, and I agreed. This sounds  wonderful,
> and I've seen situations where this was the pattern, especially if  there
> are children involved.  There was utterly no fighting or even  tension
> over money and possessions.
> 
> A fellow dermatologist, who was in my residency class, and his wife
> tried to be as helpful as possible and not take sides.  We used to  vacation
> together, and were close.  He and his wife are Jewish.  They knew  of a
> family counselor who happened to a be a rabbi's wife, and we saw her
> together for about a year.  She was excellent.
> 
> Then, when it appeared the inevitable divorce would take place, the
> same friends suggested a counselor for me and one for my ex-wife.   I
> got nothing out of my counselor, and in fact, I was teaching him  rather
> than vice-versa.  The counselor for my ex-wife was a disaster.   She was
> a radical feminist and a complete misandrist.  I happened to see  a letter
> she had written my ex because the latter placed it by mistake in one of 
> my dresser drawers.  I've never heard such hate and misinformation,  and
> the terrible part was that she was referring to me!
> 
> That ended the "friendly" divorce, and from that point on it was lawyer  to
> lawyer.
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> David Strang..
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