[Magdalen] A bit of a problem.. any suggestions ??

[James Oppenheimer-Crawford]

Discuss with her how much she wants this, and that a very brief comment
(even a note, perhaps) to the priest would suffice. It would be quite
appropriate for her to say that she wishes her dear friend so-and-so to do
her funeral. No need to talk about disliking the other person.

If she does not do that, then you certainly don't need to be in any way
upset. She made her choice, for whatever reason, and that's that. It's not
your job to try to "handle" this situation.

I agree with Grace entirely.



James W. Oppenheimer-Crawford
*“A life is like a garden. Perfect moments can be had, but not preserved,
except in memory. LLAP**”  -- *Leonard Nimoy

On Sun, Apr 22, 2018 at 2:08 PM, Sheila Ketler <debbiedimond52 at gmail.com>
wrote:

> Hello everyone
> As most of you may know or may not know I sub as an organist at a Catholic
> parish. My future daughter in law's grandmother was very devout Catholic
> and Delores attended this parish faithfully. Now Delores dislikes the
> organist in charge over there and she advised her family (but not the
> priest) that she did not want that other woman playing the organ and she
> told them she wanted me to do it...
> The problem is she did not tell the priest this and if the family do not
> make her wishes known then that other woman will do it...
> Not sure how to handle this ....This only happens with me in my life why is
> there always such a problem? and I would have offered but thought they
> would turn me down flat...!!
>
> Any advice welcomed...
>
> Sheila
>